Good evening all,
So I love my lessons it seems. Yesterday was a big birthday (for me), I turned 25, I have had 7 additional years I thought I’d never see. Though I’m still young, I have learned a lot already, I’ve seen a lot of life in such a short time. I turned a quarter of a century, in the middle of a pandemic, it was my first sober birthday since 16 and probably my last one in my hometown (for a while at least). Yeah, that’s big for me.
So I thought I’d do a small post, just sharing general life lessons I have learned so far, it’s mainly a reminder to myself, should I ever forget. Something to reflect on as I get older.
1. Life can throw many, many terrible things at you, sometimes all at once (think 2014, L)
2. You don’t have to have everything figured out by age 18.
3. Following on from 2, plans will never go exactly according to your schedule.
4. Everything is impermanent.
5. You will see both the wondrous and awful nature of humans at some point.
6. There are over 7 billion versions of reality and what life should look like on this planet.
7. If you don’t want to experiment or “go wild” because you’re ‘young’, then don’t.
8. Live life according to yourself, and no one else.
9. There are extremes to every view and thought in this world.
10. Always seek help where you need it, in any given situation.
11. You’re going to mess up. That is an inevitable fact. No one leaves their life without making mistakes.
12. Don’t be afraid of having an opinion. It’s how you find your values.
13. Don’t be afraid of conflict. Though do not seek it out.
14. Violence is never the answer.
15. Set goals and dream, but be prepared to be flexible.
16. The future is never guaranteed, but certainly seek it out.
17. Sometimes being curious about the future is enough to find your way there.
18. Everyone has something to contribute.
19. Try your best to be compassionate, understanding and empathetic.
21. There is always something fun to do.
22. Don’t procrastinate.
23. Life has its meaning.
24. Everyone has strength.
25. Always, always keep going.
Much merry love,